Valentine’s Day also is a day you should think about being sensitive to the feelings of others. It is a time of anxiety for children who don’t have money for cards of their own, or who feel out of place in the class. As a matter of fact, it should be a rule that if they bring cards they have to have one for everyone in the class. A nice idea would be to ask other parents to purchase an extra box of cards and send them in a week before the party so the teacher can discreetly give them to children who can’t afford to get some of their own.
Kid’s love Valentine’s Day! They love the cards, the chocolates and candy hearts, and they like the break in the normally boring winter by celebrating anything. This is the perfect time to get out the craft supplies and let your kid’s creativity take hold!Perhaps a few days ahead of time the teacher can have children bring in empty Kleenex boxes and decorate them for the Valentine’s they will get at the party, or give them a homework assignment to decorate and bring in their own boxes to put their Valentines in.
Get together with the teacher to work out the length of time the party will be, and what supplies you will need to bring. Plan at least one craft, a game, and snacks.
Let them put together their own Valentine cards to take home to their parent(s). You and the teacher supply colored paper, glue, glitter, valentine shapes, stamps, yarn and whatever you can find to decorate the cards.
Keep in mind that some kids, who don’t feel like they are popular, may feel out of place at a party. Go out of your way to include these children. Let them be your assistant and pass out the supplies, or set up chairs for musical chairs, etc.
Plan a game or activity – musical chairs, Pictionary (have each child draw a picture of a Valentine-related object, life a bow and arrow or cupid).
For a treat you can bring sugar cookies cut out in the shape of a Valentine, and the kids can decorate their own. Supply frosting (simple powdered sugar mixed with butter and milk and colored in red, pink or left white) and Popsicle sticks to decorate the top. Add sprinkles and you have a treat they will love, and have fun making.
As long as everyone is included, you have the room under control, and the kids are having fun you will have a successful party!
